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The Great “OF White-Out” Debacle

Liquid paper is the quick fixer – “one swipe of the brush will wipe away your mess! “And OnlyFans has truly made a mess for itself and is now trying to “White Out” all of the Sw’s who made it the success it is today by “redefining” its terms of “acceptable use policy“.

Whiteout, “correction fluid” or as it’s now called – Liquid Paper, was used on master copies of mimeographs to correct spellings – back in the days before computers. Whiteout then quickly became popular with secretaries back in the ’70s who would amend the expense reports of their bosses who, I imagined, wanted to keep their “business lunches” secret from the taxman.

The OnlyFans “Great White Out” Debacle

This new “acceptable use policy states:

Do not use OnlyFans in any way which may exploit, harm, or attempt to exploit or harm any individual under 18 years old, for example by exposing them to inappropriate content.

Do not upload, post, display, or publish Content on OnlyFans that:

actual or simulated sexual intercourse, including genital-genital, oral-genital, anal-genital, or oral-anal, between persons of any sex;

actual or simulated masturbation;

any exhibition of the anus or genitals of any person which is extreme or offensive;

actual or simulated material depicting bodily fluids commonly secreted during sexual conduct;

drugs or drug paraphernalia;

actual or simulated incest;

actual or simulated violence, rape, lack of consent, hypnosis, intoxication, sexual assault, torture, hardcore bondage, fisting, or genital mutilation;

actual or simulated urine, scatological, or excrement-related material;

actual or simulated bestiality;

actual or simulated sadistic or masochistic abuse; or

actual or simulated necrophilia;

in the case of Content featuring public nudity, was recorded in or is being broadcast from a country, state or province where public nudity is illegal;

causes or is calculated to cause inconvenience or anxiety to anyone else or which is likely to upset, embarrass, or cause serious offence to anyone else;

SO all of this to say: “anything sexy gets you shut down

Perhaps in a future post, I’ll dissect and provide my sarcastic running commentary on each of these pathetic floppy penis-shaped bullet points and we can all have a good laugh at the expense of a company that will go down in history as being the shittiest of platforms to kick their money-making creators right smack in the face.

But for shits and giggles:

“actual or simulated masturbation” – “I like my martinis dry, and my acts of masturbation simulated…”

And because I find this policy so completely ridiculous and fueled by people who are out to further discredit SW’s and send them to be burned at the stake, I will not be posting any more content on this site. I will be primarily posting to my AVN Stars with updates here about the other platforms I will be using.

I stand in union with all of my co-creators in sounding the alarm bell. Censorship is the “White Out” that wants to blot out porn/BDSM/and any kind of artist depiction thereof between or by consenting adults akin to a mortal sin.

This is 2021 people.

Get an education.

Pull your head out of the ground and look back at some of the great pieces in Greco-Roman art history. They created art that would put even Larry Flint to shame.

This is 2021. Sex is sex is sex. If we choose to write about it, talk about it or even goddam film it – please do us all a favour, stop being such a fuc*en prude.

Upcoming Podcasts and Interviews Part 2

On June 21st, 2021 at 7 pm EST (and yes, the first day of the Summer Solstice) I will be interviewed by Mistress Dia Dynasty the co-founder of La Du Maison Rouge with her co-conspirator Lucy Sweetkill. I literally cannot find the words to express my excitement, and emojis would just be overkill…

Taken from their website:

La Maison du Rouge is focused on expanding the BDSM experience by discussing, educating, and informing our audiences about the intersections of kink, wellness, sexuality, spirituality, and social activism. We aim to build community in this regard by creating a safe space for discussing these topics as well as advocating the normalization of alternative sexualities.  By challenging current social norms, we aspire to bolster a culture around consent and open communication.

LMdR was founded on the compassionate and principled interests of the professional dominatrix duo Lucy Sweetkill and Dia Dynasty. After meeting at a commercial BDSM house and spending many years building a sisterhood, Lucy and Dia ventured to create something of their own. They are committed to elevating BDSM and fostering community through intersectional discourse and sharing personal narratives.

I had been following LMDR for some time, truly connecting with the idea of an all-femme Domme collective and educators who were expanding and sharing their thoughts and experiences about the BDSM scene with the world. The interviews I had watched were intelligent, compelling, insightful and inspiring. Real-life people with real unrehearsed poignant stories.

I had reached out to Dia Dynasty because her tweet about her upcoming project truly intrigued me- The Femdom Farm: “Spiritually-centered Matriarchy based in Indigenous Wisdom, Eco-Feminism, and Wholistic Femdom.”

As a Reiki Master Practitioner, Access Consciousness Facilitator and a student of Shamanic Studies, spirituality is very much a part of my practice and sessions as is it my daily life. I had once dreamed of owning a “Femdom acreage/collective” where Dommes and their submissives would come to stay: a retreat of sorts, where other Dommes would offer courses, spiritual beings such as myself offering Energy healing sessions, others, yoga classes, and of course, lessons in safety, the 101’s of BDSM, while the submissives earned their keep tending the fields, repairs and renovations to the property and of course, servitude to their Mistresses.

I was deeply intrigued and elated to see that there was a smart creative and entrepreneurial individual who was already embarking on their path to making this idea, their dream a reality, so I reached out to Dia, – “when the borders open up, it would be my pleasure and an honour to be part of such a phenomenal and necessary genesis of such a life-changing/humanity/environmentally impacting project.”

She immediately reached back and amidst the delightful evolving dynamic of our virtual connection, she asked me to be a part of her weekly Monday show on Youtube..

As soon as we had our first zoom call, it felt like I had met a kindred spirit – so many similar thoughts and point of views about the influential growing movement of female empowerment and supremacy, the importance of education and de=stigmatization of kink, and how spirituality is an integral part of the BDSM experience.

Here is the fun, candid and dynamic interview:

And while you are at it, support their dynamic and beautiful collective because I say so.

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